If you know me, you know I can talk. I love this line of work because there’s a lot of opportunity to do just that. I want to continue to blog on my site, but I need it to work for me, which means no more ‘monthly roundups.’ Rather, I’ll continue to write as I feel inspired when it makes sense to me.
With that being said, I just spent the last hour updating my portfolio and was left feeling inspired to share more. I love the week leading up to the holidays because things tend to slow down, which means I can give a little more to self-reflection, which is exactly what this post is about.
What I’m Proud Of
Supporting my husband in going back to school
For 7 months, Wil (husband) attended a remote, intensive program to learn back-end software development. The program was so time-consuming that he could not work while attending the program. It involved months of late nights (including weekends), roughly 60 hours a week. I somehow managed to work full-time while managing our house and ensuring we had good, home-cooked meals. I’m happy to report that my good cooking (😆) and his hard work paid off. In a year where it is difficult to break into the tech field, Wil begins his first job as a ruby developer this January. He’ll be fully remote and freelance, just like me. This is a life-changing experience for us. I couldn’t be more excited.
Producing 15 podcast episodes
It was a lot, but we did it. I had my head down during the planning, recording, and creation of the show notes/writing, that I didn’t realize just how much content we actually created this past year. Special thanks to my co-host/sound producer, Britt who tipped me off to this number. This was a nice reminder to keep going with the passion project.
Retaining old and adding new clients
I started out the year with just 1 client I really loved. I’m very fortunate to have a client that pays enough for us to live off of. That being said, with layoffs happening in tech and Wil going back to school, I decided to focus on diversifying my client roster. In years past, whenever I’d taken on more clients, I always had to hire help. It’s not that I don’t like working in teams, but when I did the math, I was not really making what I needed to in order to justify the extra effort it took to find/manage contractors and ensure that they were working to my standard.
I’m not going to lie, although I’m proud of “figuring it out,” this was probably my least favorite part of 2023. There were a lot of conversations that went nowhere, difficult conversations with colleagues/clients, and a few sleepless nights praying that I would be able to impress my newest client.
I am so happy to say that I have finished off the year strong with 3 very happy clients, all with arrangements that leave me very flexible to say no when I need while also ramping up my hours as-needed. I will not need to hire help either. It’s a dream come true.
What I Wish I Hadn’t Done
Entertained the “hustler”/scarcity mindset
It makes sense that I developed this attitude due to my personal circumstances and the current state of things, however, the endless hustling I found did not sit well with my spirit.
Made assumptions that served nobody
Again, perhaps due to my circumstances, I had a few emotionally charged conversations with colleagues. The common thread was this assumption that I wasn’t viewed as “good enough” or “responsible enough.” I realized that my fear of judgment clouded my view of reality. I’m grateful for the grace that these colleagues were able to give me. I’m grateful to be surrounded by people who are able to have these frank, honest conversations with me.
I can’t get things right 100% of the time, but I’m glad that I’m always working toward betterment. That’s something worth being proud of.
Did things I didn’t want to do because I felt I “had to”
This ties into the previous point. I am a high-achiever and recovering perfectionist, and it can be to the detriment of my health if I’m not careful. To balance work with other aspects of my life, I tend to try and ‘stay fluid’ through intuitive living. I naturally wake up with no alarm clock, have an intentional slow morning, have daily rituals like prayer/meditation/breathwork/yoga, and I slowly make a plan to “conquer my day.”
Aside from work, a typical day might include a long conversation with a friend or loved one, time throwing pottery at home or in-studio, and making intricate meals. It means that I don’t always have time for things like “self-promotion,” nor do I always feel like I want to. This year, out of fear of not appearing successful I forewent the activities that light my soul in order to make way for early morning email correspondence and posting on LinkedIn when I didn’t feel like it. It did not sit well with me, and I don’t want to do that in 2024.
Looking Ahead To 2024
Celebrating 8 full years of freelancing :)
The other day, Wil asked me how long I’ve freelanced total. I sat down and did the math. Wow! In February, it will be 8 years. I started the journey when I was just 23 years old. I didn’t find it a big deal then, although my mom would constantly tell me how special of a thing it was to work for myself. I was just relieved to work remotely, make more, and spend time hanging out with friends during the day.
Fast forward to today, and I realize that the journey I started then was very remarkable, and still is.
Yet, it’s same motivation I had then that keeps me going today. I might not be aimlessly riding my bike or in my 20’s, but I’m currently able to forge strong relationships with my peers at the clay studio on a random Tuesday morning. Or, I’m calling my mom to see how her day’s going and letting the conversation unfold as it may, with me rarely having to cut her off and say, “I have to go.” It’s the ability to make Wil a nice lunch when he’s had his head down to code.
I can’t believe I’ve been freelancing for the majority of my career. I’m so proud of myself. I don’t often say that out loud enough. But, this. More of this attitude in 2024, please.
Prioritizing myself, family, and friends
This cannot be stated enough, but I think I’ve explained it thoroughly enough already. :)
‘Being myself’ professionally
Originally I had come up with We Earn Media for the re-launch of my freelancing career. I think I was still ‘high’ off of the success of helping build Student Loan Hero, that I had these aspirations of scaling up and creating an agency, hence the name. It never quite felt right, so when the podcast idea came up, we decided that the WEM brand would be perfect for it.
Still, elements of my freelancing brand are attached to the name (including my email address), so I’m in the process of transitioning WEM branding out of my own freelance business. And with that in mind, I decided I’m going to base my freelance business’ name on my own name, because I am my USP (unique selling position). Hence, I’m calling my business Jaclyn PR (hits the 3 s’s: short, sweet, straight-forward).
And to continue the theme of being myself, I’m contracting a freelance illustrator who I admire to draw a logo and create some cute imagery for my site. There are many reasons I’m doing this, but to name a few: to support fellow creatives, to fight the culture of sameness, and to serve as the antithesis of ai art (barf).
So, with all that being said, I want to thank you, if you’re reading this. It’s likely that you have had some sort of influence on me in some way shape or form. And, while I can’t wait to see what 2024 has in store for me, for now, I take the rest of the year off. See y’all next year!!!